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Monday, October 5, 2009

Why is it...

So it has been a while since I have wrote a “meaningful” blog. I don't mean oh the meaning of life or what not, but just something deep. I have all these thought that roll through my head at a constant minute to minute pace and I figured it would be kinda therapeutic to get them out and just “clean out” my head. So here it goes. These are just RANDOM thoughts. So please no one take offense.

Why is it that people judge you by the size you are. They do the “skinny check” before they even talk to you? What does it matter? Why would you get looked over for a job because you are not considered snooty or one of the beautiful people?

Why is it that we look up to someone and put them on a pedestal? When we really should be looking at ourselves? Putting ourselves on that pedestal and believing in ourselves. There is a lot of people out there that look up to that one person to change their life. But honestly they need to go look in the mirror and see that you are the only one who can change your life. Not some celebrity or author or fitness guru. But yourself.

Why is it that I am 27 years old and have no clue what I want to do with my life? Don't get me wrong I absolutely adore and love my husband and that part of my life. But I am not happy with the twists and turns that life has given to me. I want a career that I am revered for. I want a career that I get paid good for. I want a career that makes me happy and where I won't be working 110 hours a week and not a person seems to notice how it is killing me.

Why is it that people ALWAYS look at the negative. There is a whole lot of negativity in this world. Why can't their be a positive voice. A positive vibe? Come on people...just freakin smile for a change.

Why is it that I am always the one who gets called when they need someone to listen, but when I need to talk there is no one to listen to me?

Ok, I think that is enough for today. Just some random things. Ask yourselves a few of these questions... you will be surprised at some of your answers!

1 comments:

Mesha said...

~i hate that there are so many prejudices (weight, race, sex, income, social status)

~we should NEVER put anyone on a pedastal - I just wrote that to someone today! Whenver we exalt people, we set ourselves up to be let down! people will fail us time and time again and that is why I avoid having figures like that in my life. Now, there are numerous people I respect, am encouraged by and truthfully look up to (you being one of them Anna Banana. :) - but i don't hold them free of error.

~I relate to the 3rd bullet more than ANYTHING! I am 24, have no clue what I want to do for a living - weight loss has caused me to evaluate MANY things in life and what I'm doing with it has been one of them. I want to be able to pour into others lives in a positive way that will last a lifetime, not just say - "How much would you like to purchase this CD for today" at some bank.

~I'm constantly trying to help people see the positive out of negatives because I agree - WAY too much negative in the world which in turn leads to a lot of other issues we have today (weight being one of them).

~I'm not necessarily the best at it, because I'm a talker - but i do try my best to listen. I'm sorry if I haven't been a listener when you needed one Anna. :(

On that note..i'll end my response.